Love Trumps Hate


Inspired by Miss Strawberry Singh. Please head over to her post to find out ways to help and show your support to some amazing causes.

Hair: [RA] Nora Hair – Browns (The Liaison Collaborative)

Skin: Lara Hurley-Gia Midtone for Catwa

Mesh Head: CATWA HEAD Alice

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Choker: REIGN.- Tattoo Chokers – October Edition (Past FLF)

Top: Addams – Melisa SweatShirt (LuxeBox November)

Jeans: Blueberry – Tali / Denim – Vox

Pose: an lar [poses] The Opal Series (The Liaison Collaborative)

SL Yearbook 2016


Miss Berry has brought back her Second Life Yearbook Challenge to celebrate her 9th Rez Day. And this time asking us to write when we blinked into SL existence on our photo. I first found out about SL through an online game called Evony. I was very lucky when I first joined that I already had someone inworld to sort of show me the ropes and gave me a couple thousand linden to play dress up with. It was also that first week that I met my first SL bestie who took me to get a nicer skin, shape and hair at Redgrave and Damselfly. Just for kicks, this was my first ever head shot. I was so tan! LOL

Head Shot


Hair: /Wasabi Pills/ Reva Mesh Hair – Browns

Eyes: IKON Sovereign Eyes – Fjord

Skin: [ MUDSKIN ]_Yum#Bare (Lelutka Skin Applier)_S4

Mesh Head: LeLutka Stella v1.3

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Dress: ISON – badland dress – White (Collabor88)

Pose: = Fashiowl Poses = Model Pack – Mariah

Let’s Get Social

Road Trip

Berry has brought back her Social Media Meme only this time rather than questions she has asked us to make a list of all the social media platforms we use under our Second Life avatars name. Honestly other than Plurk and Flickr, I’m not very active. The only time I post on my other profiles is automatically through WordPress. I’m pretty much the same in my real life, I rarely feel the need to share my thoughts or feelings unless it’s just something I really need to get off my chest.






Second Life Profile



Hair: /Wasabi Pills/ Reva – Browns (HairOLogy)

Skin: [ MUDSKIN ]_Yum#Bare (Lelutka Skin Applier)_S4

Mesh Head: LeLutka Stella v1.3

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Lipstick: Izzie’s LeLutka Noble Lipstick Applier

Tattoo: Carol G. Tattoos Soul Flowers – Black (Gen-Neutral)

Top: Epicene Open-Sided T’s – TOM BOY – White (Gen-Neutral)

Pants: Vinyl Shinoda Khakis – Black

Pose: {NanTra} Downtown (The Instruments)



Never Have I Ever


Strawberry Singh is back with more Monday memes which makes me very happy. And I decided to do another inspiration picture based off the photo below.


  1. Never have I ever had sex, in Second Life. – Yes, a few times. But mostly just for shits and giggles.
  2. Never have I ever visited a sex sim, in Second Life. – Yes, tons. Whenever I’m bored I like to teleport around and meet people. And usually sex sims are filled to the brim with people to talk to.
  3. Never have I ever been an escort or stripper, in Second Life. – Have. My first SL “job” was a stripper.
  4. Never have I ever been in porn videos in Second Life. – Have never, that I know of.
  5. Never have I ever done things that may be illegal in the real world, in Second Life. – Have. Drugs, weapons, etc.
  6. Never have I ever created an ALT for secret activities, in Second Life. – I have made alts but not for secret activities.
  7. Never have I ever had a one night stand, in Second Life. – I have. But just like in real life, I don’t remember them very well.
  8. Never have I ever been part of a roleplay community, in Second Life. – I have. Back when True Blood was still on the air there was a Bon Temps RP community and I was a dancer at Fangtasia.
  9. Never have I ever discovered a new fetish, because of Second Life. – I’m sure I have.
  10. Never have I ever done things in Second Life that I wouldn’t admit to my friends or family. – I have. But I’m pretty open about my SL existence with them even if they don’t understand it.



Hair: Truth Arabella – Browns

Skin: [ MUDSKIN ]_Yum#Bare (Lelutka Skin Applier)_S4 (Skin Fair)

Mesh Head: LeLutka Stella v1.3

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Necklace: Cae Take Flight (The Fantasy Collective)

Dress: (fd) Criss Cross Spring Dress – Sunset (n21)

Pose: An Lar Poses–  Willow Series

Kites: <:*BoOgErS*:> Diamond Kites

A Look Back at 2015

Look Back

With a brand new year just about to start I wanted to take a look back at my favorite posts of 2015. Although I feel like I have come such a long way in just a year, I know I could do so much better. Especially where it concerns writing. Even if it’s just a simple paragraph I want to try harder this year to at least come up with a few sentences to accompany each blog post.

There were and are so many amazing people that helped me along the way and I wanted to give a quick shout-out to them. First, Caitlin Tobias for teaching me so much about social marketing, advertising and being a general bad ass. The SLBloggerSupport Group for always being willing to help out a fellow blogger whether it be finding the perfect spot for photos or trying desperately to figure out where a certain hair/clothing/pose came from. My best friend Anny for always being there through the tough times and always willing to jump in a photo with me no matter what. And last but not least my sissy Nasima, for being the family that I’ve always wanted but didn’t have in RL.

I picked the photos above not just because I thought they came out well but also some of the stories behind them whether I was trying something new or I was trying to let out my feelings about what was going on around me.

January: Save The Last Dance I picked this one for two reasons. It was my 400th post and because it was really the beginning of my love affair with fantasy.

February: What Is This? This was actually my second time entering a photo contest and second time actually winning a photo contest. Starting me on a whole new obsession.

March: On My Way Second Life’s very own Hogwarts! I’m a huge Potter Fan (I just took my second trip back to The Wizarding World of Harry Potter) and was blown away by this magical sim.

April: The Magician A dream of mine had come true! I was an official blogger for The Fantasy Faire.

May: Men & Mascara I was going through a pretty crappy time not only in RL but in SL as well. My boyfriend and I were going through a really bad rough patch (we worked it out) and I had lost someone in SL who I thought was a friend.

June: Nightmare Because friends!

July: What you gonna do with all that trunk? I usually never change my skin or shape. So this was new to me and I loved the way it turned out. I’m glad I took the chance because I don’t think this picture would have looked better had I not.

August: Absolution Another new one for me! I had never done a “dark” or “creepy” photo before. But those wings! I still had to put my own style on it though with the gorgeous snowy background behind me.

September: Gen-Neutral Again another look that I had never tackled before. Being androgynous is not something anyone would ever think about me in RL. I very obviously have large breasts and curves, I’m pretty “girly” about my clothing choices and although I identify as bisexual I lean more towards male partners. So to have the opportunity in SL to discover this new side to me was amazing.

October: The Cursed Doll I had until that post mainly been taking photos out on the grid. I’ve always loved exploring Second Life and basing my posts on what was around me. But I felt the need to at least try and be more creative and upping my own decorating skills instead of relying on others.

November: Dream Lover Two reasons. I had finally (finally!) broken down and bought a mesh head and this photo was why. I had been wanting for so long to have a gorgeous closed eye look. And the second reason, my boyfriend was behind me the whole time with input about how the picture should look. He had finally changed his tune from “I don’t even understand SL” to “This is pretty fucking cool.”

December: My Guy My first solo male post. He had always been my arm candy, but I finally made him center of attention. I hope to be doing more men’s fashion posts in the future and bringing even more attention to all the fabulous male designers in Second Life.

Well, that’s that for 2015. I hope ya’lls was as wonderful and meaningful as mine was to me. And I hope that my other fellow comrades in blogging take this and run with it as well. If you do, please post your links below! Or post your collages in the flickr group.

Me, Myself & Blackwall


I seem to always be a day late and dollar short on SL. I’ve finally had time for Miss Berry’s newest Monday Meme today while waiting for my car at the mechanics and decided to do a bit of sightseeing. I love going through the Destination Guide and finding new lands to pop into. Today I headed over to Blackwall. A dystopian sim with a heavy supernatural theme. I was very surprised with how incredibly detailed everything was from the shops in the town center to even the underground tunnels where the wolves like to hang out. And my biggest tip to any blogger tp’ing around RP sims is, well first always wear an observer tag and second ask around where someone’s favorite place on the land is. It’s kinda like taking a trip to a different country like Paris or England. Yea you could do all the touristy stuff and check out The Louvre or Big Ben but wouldn’t you rather see where the locals actually go? Ok now on to the meme! And style credits below.

I am… a huge nerd!
I want… quiet.
I have… 7 cats!
I wish… I was healthier.
I hate… people talking to me while I’m trying to focus on something else.
I fear… losing friends.
I search… for clean underwear everyday!
I wonder… if I will find unconditional love.
I regret… quitting college.
I never… been in a car accident that was my fault.
I always… daydream while driving. Not very safe, I know.
I usually… say I’m fine when I more than likely want to slap somebody.
I dance… never.
I sing… as much as I can. As long as the house is empty.
I often… think of my father who passed away a few years ago.
I sometimes… get depressed.
I cry… when frustrated.
I need… medication. =)
I should… stop sleeping in my contacts.
I love… living on my own.


Hair: Damselfly Cosette – Reds (The Fantasy Collective)

Skin: Izzie’s Qopi – Rosy & Appliers

Eyeliner: elymode Basic Cat Dark Eyeliner (Skin Fair.. last weekend!)

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara

Necklace: [glow] studio – Triangle Double Layer Necklace – White (The Dressing Room)

Dress: E! Ksenia – Amethyst (Totally Top Shelf ends the 30th!)

Poses: An Lar – The Possibilities Series (Shiny Shabby)





First & Recent Challenge

I’m so excited Miss Berry has used my idea for her newest blogger challenge! The goal is to compare and/or recreate your first blog photo (or flickr photo if you don’t have a blog) to your most newest. Also answer how you think you have improved as a photographer/blogger. Here is the link to my first post ever. The original idea behind creating my blog was to show off items I got from hunts ergo Hunting With Trixie. I realized pretty early on that I didn’t like a lot of the hunt prizes lol so instead just blogged about what I thought was pretty. My first post coincided with one of the first rounds of Collabor88 (C88 started in Aug ’11, my first post was Oct ’11.)


Obviously I knew nothing (NOTHING!) of graphics, antialiasing, or windlights. And I didn’t for monthes and monthes… and monthes. I was regularly in photoshop blurring off those horrible jagged lines.


For my recreated photo I went again with my lingerie and awkward laying pose. Although I still have a lot to learn I am definitely happy that my photo taking skills have gotten better. I even just got 3rd place is a photo contest for NanTra! I wanted to say a big thank you to Ms. Singh for picking the idea and thank you to all who have participated! I can’t wait to see everyone’s photos on Flickr!


Hair: .Olive. Daisy Hair – Crazt Glitter (The Arcade)

Skin: Izzie’s Qopi Skin – Rosy & Appliers

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara

Earrings: Luminary Narwhal (A Tattered Page)

Necklace: (NO) Lucky Cat Charm – Elephant (Arcade)

Lingerie: Baiastice Lace Dream – Grey (Fameshed)

Slippers: BOOM Animal Slippers – Narwhal RARE (Arcade)

Couch: Scarlet Creative Single Amelie Sofa (Arcade)

House: llorisen // alms cottage.yellow (Arcade)

Rugs: *ionic* My Rugs (Chapter 4)

Arcade Items: Birdy – Bunneh – Chibi – Violet, {vespertine} suitcase player, MadPea Ex-girlfriend’s Junk,  -tres blah- Hodgepodge – Paper Pile, -Pixicat- Wonderland.BasketCat RARE, [Commoner] The Murphy Collection / Stack of Boxes, Zaara [home] : 8 Jali lamp *tara*

Have you ever.. Avatar Transformation Challenge


I’ve been severely lacking lately on the Monday Meme so wanted to do a quick catch-up after Berry’s latest challenge caught my eye. Her Avatar Transformation challenge was absolutely amazing and quite, well, challenging to say the least. It took me awhile to figure out the shape (i didn’t like the one that came with the head) and obviously wearing Slink feet was a bad idea but I’m not worried about it enough to go back and try to change anything right now. I also decided to do Berry’s Have You Ever Meme seeing as how I love being asked random questions.


*style credits below*

Have You Ever Questions:

  1. Have you ever owned a sim in Second Life? – No
  2. Have you ever created content in Second Life? – I created a pose once I think
  3. Have you ever driven a vehicle in Second Life? – Yes, a few times.
  4. Have you ever gone sky diving in Second Life? – No, not yet. But will definitely check it out.
  5. Have you ever played a sport in Second Life? – No.
  6. Have you ever gone clubbing in Second Life? – Used to all the time. Was a dancer and host at a couple of clubs back in the day lol
  7. Have you ever fangirled/fanboyed someone in Second Life? – Don’t think so, but it’s possible.
  8. Have you ever taken a picture of your avatar in water in Second Life? – Most likely, all bloggers have.
  9. Have you ever taken a picture of a sunset in Second Life? – Probably behind me in a shot. But not intentionally.
  10. Have you ever taken a nude picture of your avatar in Second Life? –  Yes lol
  11. Have you ever dated in Second Life? – Unfortunately
  12. Have you ever had or attended a wedding in Second Life? – Never had one but have attended a couple.
  13. Have you ever drank, smoked or taken drugs in Second Life? – I’m sure. The buzz just isn’t the same though.
  14. Have you ever engaged in sexual activity in Second Life? – See number 11.
  15. Have you ever been to Bukkake Bliss in Second Life? – Back when I first logged into SL 2006ish


Hair: .Olive. Bubble Goth – Shiny Hair

Mesh Head & Skin: VCO Fairy Mesh Head Bell 01 (The Arcade)

Crown: Dazed Overrun Head Jewel – Ultra Rare (Fantasy Gacha Carnival)

Shape: PixieBella Shapes – Preciosa (Dollarbie)

Outfit: Sweet Lies Top & Skirt Armor – Original (Fantasy Gacha Carnival)

Tattoo: Fallen Gods Gold Filigree Tattoo (Fantasy Gacha Carnival)

Pose: Black Tulip Dark Fairy #4 Pose Set (Oneword)

Destination: Wildwood Forest

Second Life Sartorialist Challenge

I’m so glad Miss Singh has brought back her wonderful memes and challenges this year. They are one of the few things I look forward to that actually take me out of my comfort zone of just snapping a photo and listing credits. This week she’s having us *gasp* actually leaving our platforms and going out on the grid in search of someone we think looks interesting. I hopped around a while going infohubs, massively greendotted sims until I finally landed at Demonic Night Club. Miss DarkEvoStar was the first person I saw and immediately fell in love with her outfit. After perusing her profile I learned that she is also a very talented blogger which made going up to her and asking if I could take her picture a little bit easier. She was very friendly and sweet and ya’ll should all check out her blog here. You can also check out Berry’s challenge here.




Assembly Line


We are, we are more then our scars

We are, we are more than the some of our parts


This wasn’t my best year by far. After being diagnosed with Grave’s Disease and losing my job I wasn’t really in a christmas mood. I put up a bare tree (cats = no ornaments) and a wreath, but that was the extint of it. I obviously wasn’t going to be able to give any presents. So when I heard about RandomKindness on plurk I was super excited. I was able to nominate my best friend for a surprise gift card thankfully. And for myself I sent he/she a notecard for my christmas wish. I want to just be able to keep blogging. I didn’t exactly know what I was asking for. But what I got in return has been incredible. One of my gifts is a joint post shared with Caitlin Tobias. She has been amazing, helping me most of the day and giving me tips for my blog. Stuff that I haven’t thought of or just was to chicken to actually do but need to do.  We both have such different styles that at first it seemed kind of daunting to come up with something we could both post about then Caity suggested Vanessa Blaylock’s new challenge Avatar In A Box. And since I’m still in love with wearing my physique body I really wanted to be naked for it 😉

On Caitlin:

Body: The Mesh Project Body – DeLuxe
Skin (face): Glam Affair – Artemis Pearl – The Last Days 05 (event skin at Uber in September/November)
Skin applier for body: Glam Affair – Petal (from their mainstore)
Lipstick: (NO) High Definition – Red
Hair: Little Bones – Snow Spell I – in light blonde
Neck Tattoo: ‘Tangled web we weave’ by Little Pricks
Pubic hair: Tokyo Girl  – Bushy-style

Shape: by Caitlin Tobias (not available)

Box: .tarte. packing box 1

On Trixie:

Body: Slink Physique v1.4
Skin: Izzie’s Neva – Peach
Skin Applier: AMA Shattered
Hair: little bones Alien – ink Dipped
Make-Up: MONS Eyeliner Lux & BOOM Love My Eyes Liner/Mascara
Septum Ring: MONS Style 15 – Black

Shape: My own.

Pose: Double Take – With The Wind


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