Just A Quick Nap

just a quick nap

Hair: Lamb. Ask – Ombre Pack (The Arcade)

Skin: Lara Hurley-Rie Midtone *LeLutka Simone Bento*

Mesh Head: LeLutka Bento Head-SIMONE 2.7

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v4.1

Rings: Kibitz – Love rings – Silver

Bikini: Birdy – Festival – Kini – Aqua (The Arcade)

Pose: oOo Studio: Catnap

Decor –

PILOT – Bunched up Cover Up [Tropical] RARE (The Arcade)

PILOT -Sunscreen & Sunglasses (The Arcade)

PILOT – Phone w/ Earbuds (The Arcade)

[Common Grounds] Unicorn Frappe (Group Gift)

-RC- New You Self Help Books – 7 Steps to Getting Famous on TV

JIAN Playful Pibbles 17. Study Pupper (The Arcade)

#EMPIRE – Summer Time – Floating Tire 2 (The Arcade)

This isn’t The Hilton

this isn't the hilton

Hair: /Wasabi Pills/ Apple Mesh Hair – Browns (ULTRA)

Skin: Lara Hurley-Rie Midtone *LeLutka Simone Bento*

Mesh Head: LeLutka Bento Head-SIMONE 2.7

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v4.1

Sunglasses: *Besom Hair~ #8 BBG SHADES (The Arcade)

Pup: JIAN Cheeky Chihuahuas BOX 13. Black Held (The Arcade)

Jacket: .Olive. the Audrey Fur Coat – White (The Arcade)

Dress: {le fil casse} Maxine Dress White (Fameshed)

Shoes: #EMPIRE – Impatiens

Pose: ::WetCat:: “Summer Sun” Set (Tropical Summer Fair)

Bag: Besom~BBG Bag (The Arcade)

Truck, Canoe & Signs: hive // Summer Camp Gacha (The Arcade)

Desert Decor: (Milk Motion) Road To Nowhere (The Arcade)

 

Perfect Stranger

Perfect Stranger

Hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Undercut – side swept – Browns (Collabor88)

Skin: Lara Hurley-Rie Midtone *LeLutka Simone Bento*

Mesh Head: LeLutka Bento Head-SIMONE 2.7

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v4.1

Tattoo: { Speakeasy } Girl Boss Tattoo (The Crossroads)

Earrings: MG – Earrings – Arial Lost Angel Ear Cuffs

Choker: Cae :: Dina :: Collar (Romp)

Rings: Kibitz – Love rings – silver (The Secret Hideout)

Dress: Foxes – Elle – Tank Dress  – Lara (LuxeBox May)

Shoes: #EMPIRE – Chrysanthemum (LuxeBox May)

Pose: //elephante poses// Desire (Romp)

Nightingale

Nightingale

Hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Ariana – Browns (Kustom9)

Skin: Lara Hurley-Rie Midtone *LeLutka Simone Bento* (Skin Fair)

Mesh Head: LeLutka Bento Head-SIMONE 2.0

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Bento Hands: -VA-F-VISTA BENTO PROHANDS FEM-V.2BETA

Tattoo: .:AuricA:. Sarah Tattoo (Genre)

Corset: [Stargazer Creations] La Dame Corset – Sombre (Genre)

Panties: Maitreya Lara Mesh Panties

Shoes: #EMPIRE – Lunaria (LuxeBox)

Pose: Kirin – Angel Pose Pack

Decor: *DD* Caged Light {Black} (Genre)

Tokyo Pop

tokyo-drift

Hair: Magika – 04 – Fever

Skin: Lara Hurley-Gia Midtone for Catwa

Mesh Head: CATWA HEAD Alice

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Outfit: .miss chelsea. Nyla Shirt Off White & Skirt Charcoal (Uber)

Tattoo: .Inhale. Youth Leg Tattoo

Boots: #EMPIRE – Virginia (February LuxeBox)

Pose: ::WetCat::&.:LEMON:.//Backdrop Scene #1 (Fameshed)

Decor: :CP: Kabuki Entrance Sign & Ariskea & The Den [Tokyo] Tokyo Sign Neon (Uber)

Gaea

gaea

Hair: TRUTH VIP – January – Gaea

Skin: Lara Hurley-Gia Midtone for Catwa

Mesh Head: CATWA HEAD Alice

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Top: :::Sn@tch Taban Brocade Poncho::: (Genre)

Skirt: Blueberry – Luxe Box December – Skirts ❤

Boots: #EMPIRE – Honesty (LuxeBox December)

Pose: an lar [poses] The Rory Series (The Liaison Collaborative)

#WhenIWas

WhenIWas

I usually don’t follow much on Twitter but recently there has been a major trend with the hashtag #WhenIWas and it really resonated with me. And it made me think back on all my experiences growing up as a female. For the most part girls are brought up being told (or conditioned) that our goal in life is to find a husband and get married. And this involves heavily on us being attractive to the opposite sex and acting a certain way to attract a male even to the point of “fishing” for compliments and dumbing ourselves down. As young girls we are told to say “thank you” and smile for strange men who give us compliments on the way we look. Regardless if it makes us feel uncomfortable or not. Why is this okay? And why is this still going on today? Case in point, I’m almost 32 years old and my mother still tells me to look “decent” in public and that I need to find a man to take care of me, one who preferably likes big girls as she likes to point out. Clearly, I’m fucking over it. So here’s my list, because really what girl only has just one instance of harassment? These are only just a few of the big ones that really kind of shaped me as a woman.

#WhenIWas 8 years old I was sexually molested by my Aunt’s second husband. I didn’t tell anybody until I was 18.

#WhenIWas 12 years old a male teacher used his laser pointer to point to mine and other girls breasts and butts. He never got in trouble even when I did go to the Vice Principle.

#WhenIWas 17 years old a neighbor of my parents who was also a policeman at the time grabbed my hand and tried to put it down his pants. I did tell my parents but they were afraid of retaliation so until he moved whenever I walked outside to my car my dad would follow me.

 

Credits

Hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Ivy hair – Browns (Collabor88)

Skin: Lara Hurley for LeLutka – Alena Midtone

Mesh Head: LeLutka Stella v1.3

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Top: neve top – dixie neutral

Skirt: [Azuchi-Vinyl] Dress Code Gacha – SKIRT MAITREYA PLAIDR. RARE (Epiphany)

Tattoo: [G/C] The Measurement – Tattoo

Shoes: #EMPIRE – Dahlia (Group Gift)

Prop & Pose: ::WetCat:: Best Song Ever (Epicene Fashion Event)