Easy Breezy

Easy Breezy

Hairbase: Tableau Vivant \\ Lelutka HB4 – Browns (Kustom9)

Hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Pompom pigtails add-on – Browns (Kustom9)

Skin: Lara Hurley-Rie Midtone *LeLutka Simone Bento* (Skin Fair)

Mesh Head: LeLutka Bento Head-SIMONE 2.0

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Bento Hands: -VA-F-VISTA BENTO PROHANDS FEM-V.2BETA

Necklace & Earrings: Cae :: Reign :: Collection (Fameshed)

Dress: neve dress – gain lively (The Liaison Collaborative)

Pose: Le Poppycock *Easy Breezy* A (The Liaison Collaborative)

 

Battery Operated Boyfriend

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NanTra has done it again and graced us with these awesome poses & backdrops for this month’s Gacha Garden. Some come with props and although this one I’m using actually does come with a hand fan I decided to be a bit more spicy and found a cheapie vibrator on marketplace. The Gacha Garden is open until the end of the month so plenty of time to play the machines and grab some goodies.

Hair: /Wasabi Pills/ Alexa Mesh Hair – Solar Ombre

Skin: Lara Hurley-Gia Midtone for Catwa

Mesh Head: CATWA HEAD Alice

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Bento Hands: -VA-F-VISTA BENTO PROHANDS FEM-V.2BETA

Jewelry: Cae :: Darling :: Collection (Fameshed)

Lingerie: neve nighty – midnight lively

Heels: PHEDORA / Gemma heels / 25 C. BishBox January

 

Frosty

frosty

On Me:

Hair: TRUTH December VIP Gift

Skin: Lara Hurley-Gia Midtone for Catwa

Mesh Head: CATWA HEAD Alice

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Dress: Neve Christmas Group Gift (Free To Join)

Tights: Izzie’s Reindeer Tights

Boots: =Zenith=Winter Leather Fur Boots (Snow) -Maitreya (Kustom9)

On Him:

Hair: *Dura-Boy*73-DARK (The Men’s Dept)

Skin: Clef de Peau:Luke Head T5 : CATWA Appliers

Mesh Head: Catwa Justin [Basic Head]

Mesh Body: Slink Physique Male Mesh Body

Sweater: AITUI Christmas Sweater  (The Men’s Dept)

Jeans: 7mad;Ravens Dean Worn Jeans

Boots: [Deadwool] Strider boots – ice blue

Pose: GlamRus Building A Snowman With You – Common 06 (The Chapter 4)

Ice Follies

ice-follies

Hair: Doe: Sugar – Browns (Collabor88)

Skin: Lara Hurley-Gia Midtone for Catwa

Mesh Head: CATWA HEAD Alice

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Top: neve top – pep lively (Winter Trend SL)

Leggings: neve leggings – deedee fair isle (Winter Trend SL)

Skates: The Secret Store – Ice Skates – Pegasus – RARE

Pose: {NANTRA} The Agony of Defeat Gacha (The Liaison Collaborative)

Back To School

back-to-school

Credits

Hair: /Wasabi Pills/ Miki Mesh Hair – Browns @ Hairology (Does not come with pencil.)

Skin: Lara Hurley-Gia Midtone for Catwa

Mesh Head: CATWA HEAD Alice

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Top: neve top – sawyer plaid

Jeans: neve pant – artist frayed

Pose: [ILAYA] Editha Pose

Assorted Decor

Little Llama – Planner Typer #15 (Gacha)

(Milk Motion) school backpack – chevrons (Gacha)

floorplan. wall paper

Locker Grunge ..::Lado B::..

[SD] Drinking Fountain

#WhenIWas

WhenIWas

I usually don’t follow much on Twitter but recently there has been a major trend with the hashtag #WhenIWas and it really resonated with me. And it made me think back on all my experiences growing up as a female. For the most part girls are brought up being told (or conditioned) that our goal in life is to find a husband and get married. And this involves heavily on us being attractive to the opposite sex and acting a certain way to attract a male even to the point of “fishing” for compliments and dumbing ourselves down. As young girls we are told to say “thank you” and smile for strange men who give us compliments on the way we look. Regardless if it makes us feel uncomfortable or not. Why is this okay? And why is this still going on today? Case in point, I’m almost 32 years old and my mother still tells me to look “decent” in public and that I need to find a man to take care of me, one who preferably likes big girls as she likes to point out. Clearly, I’m fucking over it. So here’s my list, because really what girl only has just one instance of harassment? These are only just a few of the big ones that really kind of shaped me as a woman.

#WhenIWas 8 years old I was sexually molested by my Aunt’s second husband. I didn’t tell anybody until I was 18.

#WhenIWas 12 years old a male teacher used his laser pointer to point to mine and other girls breasts and butts. He never got in trouble even when I did go to the Vice Principle.

#WhenIWas 17 years old a neighbor of my parents who was also a policeman at the time grabbed my hand and tried to put it down his pants. I did tell my parents but they were afraid of retaliation so until he moved whenever I walked outside to my car my dad would follow me.

 

Credits

Hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Ivy hair – Browns (Collabor88)

Skin: Lara Hurley for LeLutka – Alena Midtone

Mesh Head: LeLutka Stella v1.3

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Top: neve top – dixie neutral

Skirt: [Azuchi-Vinyl] Dress Code Gacha – SKIRT MAITREYA PLAIDR. RARE (Epiphany)

Tattoo: [G/C] The Measurement – Tattoo

Shoes: #EMPIRE – Dahlia (Group Gift)

Prop & Pose: ::WetCat:: Best Song Ever (Epicene Fashion Event)

The Tower

The Tower

I’m still playing around with all my goodies from The Gacha Guardians. I honestly can’t help it, I’m just loving everything I won. This time I wanted to show off this adorable collection by Pillows called Locked Away. I was lucky enough to get the rare Tower on my first pull. I really wish I could show it off better but I just don’t have the landscaping abilities to do it right now. But I did set it up on my platform to place all the furniture and decor in it.

The Tower2

Credits

Hair: Damselfly Loryn – Dark Browns (FaMESHed)

Skin: [ MUDSKIN ]_Yum#Bare (Lelutka Skin Applier)_S4

Mesh Head: LeLutka Stella v1.3

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Crown: Pillows Locked Away Gift of The Guardians (Need to play 10x for the Key)

Dress: Neve by ColdLogic Rhapsody – Lively

Pose: An Lar Poses – The Georgia Series