Easy Breezy

Easy Breezy

Hairbase: Tableau Vivant \\ Lelutka HB4 – Browns (Kustom9)

Hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Pompom pigtails add-on – Browns (Kustom9)

Skin: Lara Hurley-Rie Midtone *LeLutka Simone Bento* (Skin Fair)

Mesh Head: LeLutka Bento Head-SIMONE 2.0

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Bento Hands: -VA-F-VISTA BENTO PROHANDS FEM-V.2BETA

Necklace & Earrings: Cae :: Reign :: Collection (Fameshed)

Dress: neve dress – gain lively (The Liaison Collaborative)

Pose: Le Poppycock *Easy Breezy* A (The Liaison Collaborative)

 

Pride

Pride

Hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Lazy – Browns

Skin: Lara Hurley-Gia Midtone for Catwa

Mesh Head: CATWA HEAD Alice

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Tattoo: [Ab.Fab] Revolution Tattoo (Genre)

Tuxedo: *COCO* Double Breasted Jacket & Skinny Tuxedo Pants – Black

Purse: ERSCH – Love clutch Pulse 01 (Pulse Fundraiser)

Nails: alaskametro<3 “Pride” nail art appliers (Pulse Fundraiser)

Pose: //elephante poses// Love (Pulse Fundraiser)

Hustle

Hustle

Credits

Hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Yoann hair – Browns (Summerfest)

Skin: Lara Hurley-Gia Midtone for Catwa (Summerfest)

Mesh Head: CATWA HEAD Alice

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Outfit: Asteria – “In Flames”  [Maitreya-Slink] – Black (Tres Chic)

Shoes: REIGN.- ESTEE HEELS- LUXEBOX PACK

Pose: an lar [poses] The Yolanda Series

#WhenIWas

WhenIWas

I usually don’t follow much on Twitter but recently there has been a major trend with the hashtag #WhenIWas and it really resonated with me. And it made me think back on all my experiences growing up as a female. For the most part girls are brought up being told (or conditioned) that our goal in life is to find a husband and get married. And this involves heavily on us being attractive to the opposite sex and acting a certain way to attract a male even to the point of “fishing” for compliments and dumbing ourselves down. As young girls we are told to say “thank you” and smile for strange men who give us compliments on the way we look. Regardless if it makes us feel uncomfortable or not. Why is this okay? And why is this still going on today? Case in point, I’m almost 32 years old and my mother still tells me to look “decent” in public and that I need to find a man to take care of me, one who preferably likes big girls as she likes to point out. Clearly, I’m fucking over it. So here’s my list, because really what girl only has just one instance of harassment? These are only just a few of the big ones that really kind of shaped me as a woman.

#WhenIWas 8 years old I was sexually molested by my Aunt’s second husband. I didn’t tell anybody until I was 18.

#WhenIWas 12 years old a male teacher used his laser pointer to point to mine and other girls breasts and butts. He never got in trouble even when I did go to the Vice Principle.

#WhenIWas 17 years old a neighbor of my parents who was also a policeman at the time grabbed my hand and tried to put it down his pants. I did tell my parents but they were afraid of retaliation so until he moved whenever I walked outside to my car my dad would follow me.

 

Credits

Hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Ivy hair – Browns (Collabor88)

Skin: Lara Hurley for LeLutka – Alena Midtone

Mesh Head: LeLutka Stella v1.3

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.5

Top: neve top – dixie neutral

Skirt: [Azuchi-Vinyl] Dress Code Gacha – SKIRT MAITREYA PLAIDR. RARE (Epiphany)

Tattoo: [G/C] The Measurement – Tattoo

Shoes: #EMPIRE – Dahlia (Group Gift)

Prop & Pose: ::WetCat:: Best Song Ever (Epicene Fashion Event)

Shhh… he thinks I’m a deer

Thinks I'm A Deer

Hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Starry Night \\ Windy – Redheads (The Arcade)

Antlers: Vinyl – Helianthus Antlers (Past FLF)

Skin: Lara Hurley for LeLutka – Alena Midtone

Mesh Head: LeLutka Stella v1.3

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara v3.4

Top: The Annex – Winter Cape – Red (Wayward Market)

Skirt: Neve by ColdLogic – Buttons Denim

Socks: Izzie’s Thigh High Knit Socks

Deer & Pose: Le Poppycock *La Paix* Devotion (The Liaison Collaborative)

Will You Remember Me

Will you remember me

Hair: Tableau Vivant Burtonette – Redheads (Collabor88)

Hair Bow: Tableau Vivant Skully Bow (Kustom9 Birthday Gift)

Mesh Head: LeLutka Stella v1.3

Applier: Glam Affair Dia De Los Muertos 3 (Collabor88)

Mesh Body: Maitreya Lara 3.4 (I matched the skin using the Maitreya Hud)

Dress: -Pixicat- All Seeing Dress – Maitreya – Rare (Tag Gacha – Starting Point)

Ring: LUXE. Coffin Black (Wayward Halloween)

Shoes: Essenz Toulouse – Black

Pose: Kirin – Moca Pose Pack (Kustom9)

Decor: Toiz Tarot Set (Sale!)

Location: Deadman’s Island Haunted Sim